Yes, from the title of this blog, you know what I'm talking about. Confusion. Everyone gets confused along the way on the path of life. What am I doing with my life? Is this the path that I need to take? Is this all I can do, or is there more to life than this 9am-5pm job? I'm pretty sure we've all had our fair share of these kinds of thoughts. Whether what we're doing in life is worth it, or figuring out what our lives are, or even finding ways to just get by with life.

I've done my fair share in these complicated, yet meaningful questions. Contemplating what I should do with life, why I'm stuck in this limbo after post undergraduate life. What am I doing, and is this really worth it?

I know I should not confidently say I have figure out my life and say that I can give my best advice to those who are still trying to figure out their path in life because I am still trying to figure out life. Still trying to figure out the career path I should take. I know I can almost feel that I'm almost reaching my answer to these questions about my career path, but I'm always self-doubting and worrying if I am making the right decision that will make me happy for the rest of my life.

No one wants to be stuck wondering what to do, what career path to take, and what will make me happy for the rest of my life. But I think it is healthy to step back and assess the situation, and think thoroughly and deeply about life's most challenging decisions.

What advice I can give you is that to never lose hope and never give up. I'm still going through this path of self-discovery, and I know many of you guys out there are. I'm struggling to see the light at the end of the tunnel, and I'm struggling to look on the positive, bright side.

But I know that worrying will not change anything, so you should not too. I've always been constantly worrying about life that I forget to be grateful for this opportunity to be able to actually think for my happiness, while there are others who are struggling to make ends meet and end up with a career or job they don't want to do.

What I'm trying to say is that do not let self-doubt and confusion kick in. Kick out those negative thoughts and focus on yourself and positive thinking. Look toward your bright future and do not dwell on the past. Yes, the past helps you with the future, but don't keep dwelling in the past too long because life keeps going forward in time, not backwards.

Learn from those lessons from the past and improve yourself to shape your future.

Until next time,